What I am saying will resonate VERY much for some of you: this month will continue to be an experience – an ordeal, perhaps! – in having many, many opportunities to address OLD triggers.
You are well-equipped to do so! This does not mean you always FEEL well-equipped… but you are! You are prepared for this – you have been moving towards this for quite some time!
You have not necessarily consciously asked for it, but you have, at soul level, decided to be here, on this planet, at this time, because it is SUCH a period of change and the opportunity to experience both expansion as well as very particular and specific energetic shifts is IMMENSE.
This is not necessarily about how you will feel or how you will benefit in this lifetime; this is more about a deeper level of energetic shift that you will carry with you as you progress through what I will call your “existence…”
Pay attention to your reactions this month. Choose what you will take on as “yours” and what you will hand back to others.
This is what I mean: there are many people who are responding in many ways to unpleasant situations. And when you are learning self-responsibility and self-care, it can be difficult to recognize and to decide where you stand in certain interactions.
For example: are you fighting with a friend/boss/partner because you are reacting? Or are they in reaction mode and you are simply caught in the energy of it?
These are questions many of you are asking… and I say: if you are involved in the interaction, there is ALWAYS something for you to take from it.
It may be that you are more triggered then you are comfortable initially admitting; it may be that you are not particularly triggered, however you have an opportunity to recognize that you are not responsible for this other person’s happiness; or you may not be triggered, but have an opportunity to learn that sometimes it is simply time to walk away from a relationship because you are no longer benefitting…
I say again: if you are involved in an unpleasant interaction, THERE IS SOMETHING USEFUL FOR YOU TO TAKE AWAY.
This is not about finding the positive; this is not about having to say that something unpleasant that occurs “was for the best.” It is simply about continuing to, in a deeper and deeper way, be in touch with your own feelings, your own intuition about self and what is occurring.
This is about your experience self-trust!